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Is it resistance or wisdom?

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  When we stop resisting and surrender to the situation exactly as it is, things begin to change. —Debbie Ford How do you know if what you’re feeling is just resistance and not a sign that making a life change would be a mistake? How do you know if it’s an excuse in logical clothing […]

Ignite Your Light!

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Accepting our greatness means no longer playing small. It often starts with baby steps. But eventually it means making major changes—in our lives, jobs, relationships, and dreams. If I had believed in my own self-worth, I would never have been willing to make the financial moves I made in the past. If I’d known my […]

Self Care That Doesn’t Cost a Cent!

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I’ve just had my most perfect morning. Woke early. Meditated. Wrote in my journal. Read. All while my phone was still in Airplane Mode from last night. I’m not one who looks forward to things. But this morning, I have been looking forward to ever since I realized I’d be home alone for hours without any appointments. […]

Are You Committed to Your Non-Negotiables?

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Although I’m an early riser and definitely a morning person, I’ve never been a roll-out-of-bed-and-go kinda girl. I like to take my time…to meditate, then ritualistically have my coffee, write in my journal and look out my big picture window at Snowmass Mountain. Even if I have an early flight or am on the road […]

What’s Your Worthiness Quotient?

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One of the easiest ways to tell if your self-worth could use a tune-up is by paying attention to how you judge yourself. Do you get very upset when you make a mistake? Do you say, “Damn! I’m such an idiot!” Do you tell yourself that you aren’t smart enough, aren’t good enough, aren’t capable? […]

Kick Worry to the Curb

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Is your first thought upon waking, “What do I need to worry about today?” Are you constantly scanning for what needs your attention—in a negative way? I used to wake up every morning and the first thought in my head was, “What do I need to worry about today?” And then a list of other-focused […]

The Intersection of Self-Worth and Net Worth.

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One of the most important lessons I learned after I went out on my own is that self-worth and net worth are proportional. When I increased my self-worth enough to pursue my dreams, I automatically increased my net worth. What a surprise it was to see that I could grow my net worth outside of […]

Can you see the gift in your projections?

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Ever notice how the people closest to you can also trigger the heck out of you? She’s so selfish. He’s so rude. She’s a know-it-all. He’s irresponsible.  But, here’s the deal: Every characteristic we don’t like in someone else, exits within us as well. As the old saying goes – when you point a finger […]

Break Free of Negative Patterns

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When you do one thing differently, you dissolve patterns and prove to yourself that there is life beyond the familiar. I’m not going to pretend that dissolving patterns is always a smooth process; often, it’s anything but. My now ex-husband was hardly happy that I was no longer playing our game. Our game went like […]

The Perfect Wife

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My Superwoman complex started when I was two years old. That year, my six-year-old brother died. Severely mentally disabled from birth, he had lived his life utterly incapacitated—broken—until he caught pneumonia, and his immune system could no longer fight. I’m told that even as a small child, I took great pride in my independence. I […]